Showing posts with label accomplishment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label accomplishment. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Summer's Walking!

VIDEO:  Summer trying to stand.
SO CUTE!



VIDEO:  Summer learning to stand. 
SO proud!





VIDEO:  Summer Crawling




VIDEO:  Summer walking with a trike.

I love the tongue out in concentration!
One of my favorite pictures ever!!
These moments when they learn to walk are over so quickly and then they are off!
VIDEO:  Summer walking!

Monday, August 16, 2010

Oh Happy Day!! Silver Dawn

Silver loves blowing kisses.  She loves waving bye-bye to Daddy in the mornings - she'll run down the sidewalk wildly waving her arm and blowing kisses.  Her kisses she would give on the cheek used to be her putting her cheek next to yours.  Now, just in the last week they are full smacks!

Silver loves brushing her teeth.  She doesn't move her arm back and forth, she moves her head side to side :)
Silver is full of life and fun!  She doesn't walk anywhere, she either runs, flits, flies, jumps, or twirls there.  She usually has her arms pumping as she runs :)
She can get up on the sinks and all counter tops with the aid of a stepping stool that she packs from room to room. 
Silver loves babies and she packs her babies around all day long.  She gives them bottles and wraps them in blankies.  She is either toting a baby or a puppy most of the time.
I was worried about how she would react to a baby because she is pretty aggressive some times to other kids - but babies have become her thing!

This sums up our girls - River buckled into the baby swing, loves to take things cautiously.  Silver, 1/2 hanging out takes life at full-speed!
Silver is the master of funny expressions :)
We love to play water balloons and have fun outside.
We set up the inflatable pool underneath the slide we have out back.  It's neat that our house is the hang-out spot.  We have 10 year olds that love to come play in our backyard because we're one of the only houses with grass.  They love to play on the swingset too.



Silver is an expert fly-hunter.  Here she is swatting flies. 

River was done with her pacifier (we call them Nuks) at 6 months.  She would spit it out and didn't want it anymore.  Silver LOVES her nuk.  We've been working on not using the nuk all the time before the baby gets here.  She gets her nuk  for nap and bedtime, and is pretty good about spitting it out in her crib before getting out.  

Loves to Cuddle!
I like to take pictures of things that I see regularly.  One day they'll be too big to fit in shoping carts.  Until then, I'll enjoy having them with me all the time.


Silver loves telephones.  She can tell when I'm talking to Daddy on the phone, and jumps up and down asking to talk to him. 
Multi-tasking already.

Silver Dawn is Potty Trained!
OH HAPPY DAY!!!
     I wasn't really looking forward to 2 kids in diapers, and Silver is still pretty small - 20 months, so I was hesitant about taking away the diapers to potty training her. With River she was older and understood that there were no more diapers and she totally bought into the idea of big-girl panties. Silver's still too small to understand that concept.
     I started running her to the potty when I'd catch her going #2. I'd take off the diaper so the poop would fall into the toilet and then tell her that that is where the poop goes.
     I'm sure you really want to know all this, but I'll look back and want to know what I did, so this is mainly for my future :) Sometimes as a Mom, I get pretty excited about the little things - the other day it was a foam soap dispenser that you only need a little soap and the rest water. Yes, I do get excited about random things, but that's what makes life fun!! This week many of my exciting moments were each time she tinkled, it is a really great thing!
     So back to poop - Silver doesn't like being dirty or wet, and she LOVES candy, so this was her thing!!  I kept her in the diaper, but took her to the potty regularly, and she got a candy for sitting there and reading a book. After a while, she tinkled and got a handful of Skittles! After that, she only got candy when she went and I changed her diaper regularly so it would feel dry, and she got used to it being dry and didn't like it wet at all.
       She would come to me throughout the day and ask with hand outstretched for "Tandy!" I would say that she gets a candy when she goes potty, so she says "potty" and runs, and goes!  This is also a good Mommy/Silver time.  We read books together and I give praise regularly, so she really enjoys it.  Another thing that was important to Silver was choices - she would choose which panties to wear and which potty to go in - her small one or the big one.
     Another reason I didn't switch this time to just panties is we took a trip up North for almost a week, I was hesitant to make the change a week before many, many hours in the truck. Last Monday we started with panties - I think the first 2 days we probably had 50 accidents. I like to do a t-shirt and panties without any pants on so that I can either catch her accident and run to the potty, or she'll feel it running down her legs and realize what's going on. It all clicked by Wednesday. Wednesday and Thursday we had considerably less accidents and she's been completely 100% dry Friday Saturday and Sunday, even during naps :)
     I still put a diaper on her at night, it's 50/50 if that's dry or not, but she's understanding the concept, and some nights it is dry. I think I'll wait until that's regularly dry before panties for bedtime, I'm not really up to changing a wet kid and bed at 4:00 in the morning right now :)
     I was thinking next time I potty train - I'll give myself an incentive too. I'm pretty $$ motivated - which is why Silver is Potty trained - think $40+ a month for diapers and wipes, not to mention not having any more diaper rashes or diapers to constantly check and change. So next time I'll give them a candy for going potty and drop a quarter in a jar for me each time they tinkle which means no diaper to change!!
     One thing I noticed with both River and Silver is their deep sense of accomplishment in being able to do this.  They grow up in their own eyes and mine as well.  They are no longer babies - they are officially BIG girls!
 Life is Good!

Wednesday, May 26, 2010

I Hope You Dance

Dancing has been a very important part of our home.
River LOVES dancing with Mommy, Daddy, Silver, friends!
Dancing is such a great thing and helps you feel so alive!
I used to go Swing Dancing once a week at Utah Sate. 
We need to find some dance classes for Colt and I to learn swing together, I can follow, not lead. 
Sometimes I try to lead...We've learned we can't have 2 leaders at the same time!!
That reminds me of a song:  Life's a Dance
Sung by John Michael Montgomery

Life's a dance you learn as you go
Sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow
Don't worry about what you don't know
Life's a dance you learn as you go

The longer I live the more I believe
You do have to give if you wanna receive
There's a time to listen, a time to talk
And you might have to crawl even after you walk
Had sure things blow up in my face
Seen the longshot, win the race
Been knocked down by the slamming door
Picked myself up and came back for more

Life's a dance you learn as you go
Sometimes you lead, sometimes you follow
Don't worry about what you don't know
Life's a dance you learn as you go
  We've definitely learned things as we went.  Talking to a friend with teenagers now I expressed that I love the stage my kids are in and don't want them to grow up.  I'm comfortable with little kids, I don't really know what to do with them when they're older.  I'm scared to have teenagers.  She says to me that she felt the same way, but you learn as you go, your kids will be yours and you'll have all that history, memories and love that you've built with them.  You learn the stage of life that you're in, and they're in.  It's not you just jumping in when they're teenagers.  Kids just get funner and get more and more capable, and you can have different adventures together.  I need to remember the end goal in parenting:  Raising Responsible Capable Adults!  We studied this a bit at BYU in one of my family classes.  It's hard when you've had tiny children that you've done everything for, but as the years go by, you need to give them more and more freedom and responsibility.  You need to have your parent-child (adult-child) relationship morph into an adult-adult relationship.
I'm on a song kick today.  There are so many great songs about dancing: 
Here's "I Hope You Dance"  Sung by Lee Ann Womack:

I hope you never lose your sense of wonder
You get your fill to eat
But always keep that hunger
May you never take one single breath for granted
God forbid love ever leave you empty handed
I hope you still feel small
When you stand beside the ocean
Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens
Promise me that you'll give faith a fighting chance

And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance
I hope you dance
I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance
Never settle for the path of least resistance
Living might mean taking chances
But they're worth taking
Lovin' might be a mistake
But it's worth making
Don't let some hell bent heart
Leave you bitter
When you come close to selling out
Reconsider
Give the heavens above
More than just a passing glance

And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance
I hope you dance
Time is a wheel in constant motion always
Rolling us along
Tell me who
Wants to look back on their years and wonder
Where those years have gone
HUGS!
I never want to regret where these years have gone.  That's my major motivation.  I live most everyday reminding myself that I want to live without regrets.  I try to not get sucked into the computer...the projects...work..... insert anything here that you find yourself taking you away from your kids and these precious times.  Yes, we need breaks, and I probably don't take enough breaks, but I'd rather err on the side of too much time than not enough. 

Here are some darling videos of River's dance recital.  She is the one on the very right.  Because she loves dancing so much, we signed her up for a dance class.  At first she loved it.  As time went on she started getting really frustrated with the other kids in the class.  It was a 3 year old class, and River is very mature and conscientious of rules and obeying them.  It was hard for her to stay focused and not stress out about all the other kids not following rules.  She kept raising her hand "Teacher, _______is touching the curtains"  "Teacher________is talking to me and not being quiet"  "Teacher_________ is running around"  "Teacher _______is pulling on me".  She just got so overwhelmed that it wasn't fun for her anymore. 

We almost didn't go to the dance recital.  At first she wanted to go and dress up in her pretty costume.  When I made the hurculean effort to get back from a S.G. trip, getting home 15 minutes before show time she then said she didn't want to go.  All these things pop up as a parent...so what do you do then...make them go...say it's okay to stay home.  I had decided Primary and Joy School are not optional.  She needs to go and have those experiences.  Dance Class and Library time are optional.  If she wants to stay home, that's okay...she's only 3.  There will come a time where we need to learn follow through and going to things even though we don't want to, but for a 3 year old???  I talked to the librarian about this, she said, "Oh, this is the time you have them come, even if they cry a couple of times, it teaches them how to interact with others".    I believe that to be true too...I think we'll start going back to library time now that Joy School is over.  Oh, how nice it would be to have a manual to look up how to handle things when they pop up. 

But that's the beauty of this life...not having everything spelled out for you, even though sometimes it would be very nice...  This is when I rely on my Heavenly Father, knowing she was his child before she was ever mine.  He knows her better than I ever will.  I need His guidance.

In the end, the mom of her BEST friend called and I said we're trying to get out the door for the recital.  Isn't it amazing when people call or stop by right at the exact moment?  Tender Mercies of the Lord are around us everywhere!  Danika is a teenager, one that River really looks up to.  Danika ended up going to the recital to watch her dance, which made River feel really special.  River had a fun time, really got into it and enjoyed herself.  I wonder what would have happened if I had tried to force her to go....We went over to Danika's house after the recital to show off her dress and say Hi.  Oh, never underestimate the power role-models can have on kids.  Especially older kids are tremendous examples to the younger ones.

A big thank-you to all those who have blessed my children's lives!  You mean more to them and me than you will ever know.

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Silver Dawn Almost One Year

On Thanksgiving (3 days ago) I remembered last Thanksgiving (2008). I was less than 2 weeks away from giving birth to Silver Dawn. It's been almost a year that we've had her happy spirit in our home. What an absolute JOY she is to us. It was a special time to have a new baby in our home last year thinking about Christ as a baby and celebrating his birth.
Silver is a very choice spirit - she is very mellow and very happy. She is very smart and determined! She has brought a sweet spirit into our home from the minute she entered it.
River is SO sweet with her, always calling her "little sweetie" or "sweetie pie". They hug and will play really well together. Now that Silver can walk -- Yes! Can you imagine, she's REALLY walking at less than 1 year old! -- they play ring around the rosies together. Daddy is Silver's best friend! She loves to be in his arms, or sitting right by him.

Both of our girls are very healthy. A good sleeper too! I am a firm believer in schedules! She is really good about taking a nap at 10:30 and again at 1:30. We've also started getting her to bed at 8. This is a huge improvement, we used to not get them into bed very early, and it is so nice to have a couple of hours at night to re-group. Being in the office so much, River didn't have a schedule, so it's been nice to be able to develop a routine that we can stick to. River also takes her nap at 1:30. She always tells me that she's not tired. She doesn't have to sleep. Just one hour of quiet time. I set the timer for 1 hour. Sometimes she reads for 45 minutes, and then takes her hour nap!

Here's Silver playing Peek-a-Boo. If a picture is worth a thousand words, a movie is priceless!
Silver LOVES playing Peek-a-Boo! She'll play it laying down on the floor, with a blanket, or pulling up her skirt if she's wearing a dress. What a sweetheart!

Here's a video of River walking. This movie was taken a couple of weeks ago now. She is so solid on her feet. People are amazed at how little she is and how well she walks. She can stand straight up and walk. She walked all the way down the hall at church today. She gets so proud of herself - she knows when she accomplishes great things and breaks out into a huge smile and laughs. At first she would take a step or two and be so happy that she would fall down laughing.

Silver also climbs! We take off the couch cushion on one side. She climbs on the cushion, then on the couch, and up to the cushion ontop of the couch.

The girls (all 3 of us) love to be around Daddy. He is a girl magnet! Wherever he sits down, there is at least one if not all of us sitting by him. River's reading the "For the Strength of Youth" pamphlet. Lately this has been her favorite book. She makes up stories and turns the pages. She licks all 3 fingers - her thumb, pointer and middle fingers to turn the pages. Silver loves waving, but she's only got one wave in her, better be watching the first time!

Silver crawls REALLY fast! She's such a great crawler. But her sheer determination won over crawling. Walking is now her preferred way of travel.

Video of Silver blowing on her rice! She loves to blow on her food. She also claps, waves and also does indian war whoops - watch the video, you'll get what I mean.

Last movie of the day: Happy Girl!!!

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Four Years

I feel like Reminiscing today. Colt been in the insurance business for 4 years. 4 years and 4 office moves later, here's a brief summary:
Colt and I were married in '04 and graduated BYU together in 2005. We actually rented our office 3 months before we graduated to be sure to have a spot. This was our first office:

Practically our home for the 1st year we were open. I loved that flag, we flew it when we were open. The church was right across the street, and would play bells on the hour. We graduated in August of '05, opened our insurance office the end of August. We practically lived here. We were here early and stayed most nights until at least 9:00. We were pretty dedicated to making it work even though our income was $1000, rent at this office was $300 and our home rent was $500. $200 left for both running a business and a home was tricky! Add in cell phone for Colt, Office phone, and Utilities.....Finances were pretty slim. We only had our Trooper as transportation, so we literally went everywhere together. Colt and I were together 24/7 and most weeks we were only apart when I led Singing Time in Primary and Colt went to Sunday School and Elders Quorum.
Here's an interior shot of our office. It was barely wide enough for Colt's desk. I actually have a desk just behind Colt's. I was his secretary, and this first year was pretty stressful trying to make it all work and start a book of business from scratch. I got pregnant September 2005, which was a step of faith for us, because we didn't know if I'd get morning sick or not. Thankfully we were very blessed, and pregnancies for me are great!! In fact, I feel better than at any other time when I'm pregnant. I would knock doors pregnant trying to get business. My goal was to not come back every day to the office until I found someone. River was born in June of 06 and came to work with me after about 3 weeks. While it was small, it was very comfortable, and we made it homey, people said there was a really nice feeling there. It was a high stress year, but not anything I'd ever change because we work together well.
August '06 we moved right next door to our 2nd office. This one was quite a bit bigger. We still had the problems of heating and cooling - it was so cold in there in winters, and SO hot in the summers. But, it was a nice location, we were central to the bank, newspaper office, hospital, school, library and post office. There was a lot of traffic back and forth.
River practically grew up here. I brought River to work with me every day until she was around 2. At that point we were going for a once in a lifetime bonus opportunity with the company, and after much prayer, we decided it was worth it for me to keep working to try to hit this bonus. After MUCH hard work and effort, we finally hit our bonus. The deadline was the last day of August 2008. We worked like crazy up until that last day, and sat back to see what we had done. We needed 1000 units in force (homes and autos). We had 1025. Absolute Miracle. We decided to go for it the previous February. That meant that for the next 6 months we had to break the agency record, every month for 6 months. It was a very busy time, especially considering our callings (Colt: Stake YM Presidency and in the Ward Elders Presidency and me as YW President). We were blessed! This bonus allowed me to move home and be a stay at home mom. (Note: We didn't see any of the money of the bonus: Most of the bonus went to pay off debt incurred during our 1st 3 years, and the rest was used to remodel office #4, but it got us out of debt and allowed us to make the move to office #4)
On to move #3: September '08
I finished up what work I had and helped moved the office:

Colt had by this time made a name for himself in the community and a accountant wanted to office with him. After much deliberation, we moved to this building on the 2nd floor: A very professional atmosphere. Colt during this 3rd year started focusing on helping people with Retirement. Saving and growing their money and knowing how to preserve wealth for the future generations. Colt is very good at what he does, and has a personal approach that I think has made him so successful. He builds relationships with people easily and he does what is in their best interest.
DID I MENTION I LOVE BEING A STAY AT HOME MOM!!!
Office #4: Move September 2009
Colt took an office location that was not very functional at all, and turned it into a very nice professional place:
The crew completely gutted the building and remodeled it with a very nice central reception area and 3 nice offices. Colt has one, and now shares the office with 2 accountants. This is our best office yet! Professional atmosphere, and great location, next to the grocery store and gas company.
A photo we had Kin snap one day of us. Little did we know this was to be the picture used for multiple ads and all sorts of things with Colt's picture on it.

I loved being Colt's secretary!
We couldn't have done what we did without help. We have an Amazing secretary that handles most everything. We also had a lot of help from John and his secretary while going for the bonus. Here's a golf game after we hit our bonus.
River in the office. Can I tell you what a relief it is just to stay home and take care of kids instead of take care of a kid at the office while nursing and typing with one hand? Or handling the phones and a crying kid? I look back at it, and it just makes me tired to think about what we did. But that's the funny thing about things like this: They help you see that you have the energy required for the task at hand. The fun thing about it was that we were all together all day every day. River got to crawl down the hall and see Dad, and we got to have lunches and dinner together every day.
Office baby - We love having a fish tank at the office











MAIL TIME!!





Colt's office was the one you see in the back right. I think it actually helped us sell more insurance to be a family business. I thought it would hurt business to have a wife and kid there all the time, but I think it really helped us. People would stop by the office to see River.

River would sit at the door and would love to wave to the kids when they walked home from the elementary school across the street.

When there was something I had to get done without a crying baby, Colt would walk River up the street so I could have a few minutes. This is a picture of him coming back with her outside the front window.

Notice the pile of papers in the background. Half of my time must have been putting everything back the way it was. We tried not to have anything in her reach. They weren't important papers, just blank forums. No wonder she loves paper and coloring now.

My front desk: River would sit at this chair and put her feet up on the desk for me to tickle them. I can't imagine working with kids at home. It broke my heart to leave River for those 6 months. I left her with Colt's sister, so I new she was in good hands. It was SO hard to leave her and not be around her while she growing so fast.


A video of River's wave to the kids.

River grew up watching people on computers with pens and calculators all day long. She LOVES art and pens. She started really young with pens. She especially loved the kind she could click, but pens with lids were cool too. People were amazed with how small she was, and how she could do things with fine detail. Being around adults was another good thing for River. She is SO social, and I think a big part of it was she said hello to dozens of people a day when she was little. I'd ask Colt if I was ruining my baby by not being home with her, and he said no, that she had so many experiences. She did, I still was able to spend all day with her and she learned like a sponge and soaked everything up. I think if anything, it helped me to be out and her to be involved in everything too. For me, 2 kids at home is much easier than one at work and working a lot, so it gave me a good perspective that I can totally do this!
Thank you Colt for working so hard so I can stay at home with our girls. I know it is not an easy Profession, but one that takes care of us.